A Recipe for Empathy

bird_turkey

Someone once said that as soon as we try giving creatures a first name, our attitude toward them subtly shifts for the better - often a whole new perspective. Example: "That deer (or bug, or other critter) who just demolished your garden: what was his name? Was it George? Emil? Or maybe Martha?" This reminds me of a recent incident: It was near Thanksgiving time last fall, as my brother John and I were leaving church, the crowd of folks around us were soon roaring with laughter, hearing us … [Read more...]

The Poison of Pet Loss

Based on the book Saying Goodbye to Your Angel Animals Although it had been a week since Kathleen McBride's dog Tyler died, she couldn't stop mourning. Unbidden tears came while she worked at her desk. Her boss, a young woman, zinged Kathleen with the words: "I thought you would be over that dog by now." The woman's callous remark left Kathleen speechless. She says, "I couldn't begin to explain to her the enormity of my loss, so I didn't even try." If it hadn't been for the … [Read more...]

Accelerating Learning

Often in readings I get people asking about past lives. With this month's focus on learning, I thought I would expand upon this and how we can access that information for our growth. It might give you some insight into how I approach growth myself -- certainly a new approach for many! But first it's necessary to talk about some of how I view this subject. Please take this in as my opinion and my experience, not TRUTH in capital letters, for you might find your exploration yields variations of … [Read more...]